Top 10 Secrets to Being an Effective Liar - More Than a Beautiful Liar
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If you have ever wished to manipulate
other people and make them do what you want then you should read this
article. It is natural for human brings to be dishonest and research has
shown that the most popular students or children in school are those
who are able to liar effectively. Like all other arts, lying will
require a lot of practice and with time you get better at it. As you
will realize, this article is meant to help you detect a liar rather
than practice the art.
1- Have a Reason to Lie
psychologists
will tell you that those ho are caught and imprisoned or lying are bad
liars. This means that you should not lie unless you actually have a
good reason for doing so. So unless you have anything to gain from lying
then y should avoid doing so.
2- Lay Down Your Own Groundwork
you
need to come up with the details of your story before you tell them to
others. This will help you realize any loopholes in your story if there
are any. This is because it is always easier to tell if a story is false
if the teller is making it up on the spot.
3- Tell a Twisted Truth
This
is a technique that is guaranteed to get you results. All you have to do
is tell the truth in a way that will leave the wrong impression. His is
what is also commonly referred to as half sin, in that you are actually
telling the truth, but in a twisted manner.
4- Know Your Target Audience
The
same principle would apply to an effective communicator who has to
identify his or her target audience. This means that you will try and
understand what the kind o things target wants to hear so that you know
he sensitive parts and avoid them. You will have to take into
consideration his or her opinion on the same matter.
5- Get the Facts Straight and Stick to Them
Successful
lying actually requires a lot of work on your part. You will have to
take your time and get the acts right. Once you have the facts then
stick to one story throughout because people have a habit of comparing
notes and you do not want to get caught in that mess.
6- Stay on Course
When someone
is trying to catch a liar, they will try and see how much the liar is
committed to their story. You have to try and look honest throughout the
story and keep the guilty look out o it. To make a great liar, you have
to love the art. The reason people are caught is cause mostly they hate
doing it.
7- Do Not Show any Signals
There
are those obvious signals that liars give when they are making a story
up. Make sure you do not fidget, touch your nose or avoid eye contact
when telling your story. Successful liars are those who give minimal
gestures and stay as calm as possible.
8- Use Your Emotions to Your Advantage
There
are times in the lying process when there will be too much pressure
especially when your target has become suspicious. This is the time you
have to manipulate the other person either sexually or emotionally.
9- Attack Your Attacker
This
is by using the counterattack principle where you accuse the other
person instead. This is the principle that most politicians will use
when attacking their opponents.
10- Bargain
This is the final
principle for a great liar who wants the best out of a sticky situation.
The trick is to accept very little responsibility for the situation and
cool the other person down.
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Muhammad Shoaib
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